It is not always possible to make all the decisions that affect your life. However, it is possible to identify and influence those people who make decisions that affect your life. When you influence other people's decisions, you increase the chances that they will make decisions the way you want them to be made. When you influence others, you are still exercising decision command.
Although you try to maintain decision command, there are always situations where others share in or make decisions that affect what you might want to do. Here are four types of decisions that affect your life.
Authoritative/Administrative decision: This is a decision made by another who has the responsibility to make the decision. It affects your life. However, you cannot make the decision because you do not have the authority.
In the decision command influencing process, you have a way to effectively influence decision makers. This process starts with making a request. Next, listen to the reply or decision. To make certain you and the decision maker both understand the decision, repeat the decision, which may be a "yes," "maybe," "no," or "final no." By identifying the decision, you will be able to decide what response to use next.
If "yes," then clarify the decision. Add details such as "when," "who," where," or "what." If "maybe no," you can still try to persuade the decision maker or negotiate. If it is a "final no," you can advocate at another level and seek other action.
Keep in mind that you have the right to ask someone to make a decision that affects your life. The worst the decision maker might do is make a final "no" decision. The best he or she might do is make a "yes" decision.
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This research was supported by the National Institute on Disability and Rehabilitation Research in the U.S. Department of Education. #1982
Budde, J., Feighny, K., White, G., Altus, D., & Snyder, J. A. (1990). Decision command and others. Consumer control: How to command decisions and achieve personal goals (pp. 50-95). Lawrence, KS: The Rehabilitation Research and Training Center on Independent Living, The University of Kansas.
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